Growing up moving around quite a bit within the States and Spain, my parents from two different countries, and having two older brothers, my mind was often on gender and geographic politics, even at the age of four. As early as I could handle paper and pen, writing became a means of making sense of things (more on my background and books here).
Back then, I delighted in being a novelty. At the same time, I knew enough that it was tragic how presidents and kings war over map lines, treat people unjustly because of them, and use them to decree who can’t marry whom.
Now I delight in how citizens are taking matters into their own hands. These days, it’s hard to find anyone on my street who isn’t some sort of blend and proud of it. There’s everything to gain from meeting people from everywhere and reaping all the good we can teach each other.
My husband, Khashayar, is from Iran, which means extra celebrating at the Spring Equinox. Persian New Year is cultural, not religious. Cuntries that also celebrate it include Iraq, Afghanistan, Georgia, Kyrgyzstan, Tajikistan, Uzbekistan, India, and Albania. Even Japan celebrates it’s own version.
Here’s a speech about it I did during my stint as a member of Toastmasters, an organization that teaches public speaking and leadership skills…
Today’s guest, Lalita Bawa, is a retired teacher from India, who blogs at Life is Beautiful 🙂 She’s a freelance writer, and authors stories and picture books. She loves nature and enjoys creating content that revolves around her life and touches her — such as the lives of dogs, as she shares here…

Who has more fun? A pet or a stray? by Lalita Bawa
One day at the crossroads they two met
one on a leash, the other running from the threat
They exchanged a glance as they proceed
Oh! What fun it is to get a lovely leash
A master
A home
A life with so much peace !!
A leash is a chain, that pulls me down
Heavy is my head in this heavy crown
You are free to explore and race at will
A minute on the plain, other minutes on the hill
Your home, an open field, under the sky
You can smell and taste all that you want to try
***
Oh! What say you? My leashed buddy
I chase all day long, still sleep hungry
In the rain , ignored by passersby
No one runs to meet me
All night I cry
I am filthy, dirty, and muddy all day long
You are so well-groomed
Move in a car with a song
You sit on your master’s lap
and get a royal pat
I am shooed away and often called a brat
***
Oh! What fun it is, to fight on the street
you look like a warrior and make my heartbeat
I sit and stare from my window seat
Eating spongy cakes, munching daily cheese
Well! I have a suggestion to make
Let us switch roles just for a day
we shall know
Who has more fun a pet or a stray?
What are you celebrating these days?
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Congratulations on your first Toastmasters speech, da-AL! I had managed one icebreaker speech and my first speech before Covid and then our group disbanded and still hasn’t gotten back together. I found Toastmasters to be a great and helpful organization. Have fun!
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Thank you Pam. I haven’t been a member for a while. I heard they do a lot via zoom these days
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I think the pandemic really messed with their business model, but it’s a very worthwhile experience no matter how it’s rolled out. ;0)
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agreed 🙂
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Seeds of joy for you; may you blossom and grow the smile of optimism for the New Year. I was going to offer a poem, but I put my Spring poems away for the winter and now I can’t find them because they all had inappropriate names that I can’t recall. Perhaps when the warm imaginary calendar Spring catches up with the astronomical Spring in name and warmth, I’ll think of something. I’m glad I’m not planting pistachio trees today because I’d have to wait 7 years for a harvest. My supermarket has them shelled so I can spring a bunch of them into my mouth without playing a shell game. I think the Sun will visit us after the cloud and rain metaphors have gone.
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Thank you and enjoy your pistachios. With shelled you don’t have to worry as much about cracking a tooth but they’re easier to overeat 😆
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Nowruz Mubarak!
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Ham hamintor from one non Persian to another 😆
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I enjoyed both your Toastmasters welcome to spring and Lalita’s poem, da-AL. Spring always brings hope, and hope is essential.
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Thank you so much for your kind response 🎉🎉
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Hope is everything indeed Annie
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Thanks for linking
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