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Call me demented from birth, but as soon as I learned to count on my fingers, life seemed way too short for all the love, experience, and writing (click here for about my books) that I hoped to cram in. By first grade, I sobbed myself to sleep after ticking off how ancient my parents would be when I was 15, then 20, and so on… Maybe that’s why I’m extra thrilled to meet people who are busting the myths about aging.
The Guardian posted “This is what 70 looks like” back in 2018. Five years later, their featured influencers call out the cosmetics industry for treating aging like a shameful disease. These vloggers demonstrate beauty techniques and get real about life’s ups and downs in ways that no 25-year-old model could be convincing.
Here they are, stronger than ever! Click the YouTube links to meet…
- Tricia Cusden, 75, London
- Makrye Park, 77, Yong-In, South Korea
- Melissa Gilbert, 68, Tennessee
- Nichole Grice, 60, North Carolina
- Margaret Manning, 74, Zug, Switzerland
Today’s guest, Karen Lynne Klink, blogss from Arizona. She started writing fiction at 60! For more about the full life she led before that and now, as well as info on her books, visit her site…
Here she shares some of her writing wisdom…

Forging Bonds: The Essential Connection Between Writers and Readers — Characters and Historical Fiction by Karen Lynne Klink
In the vast realm of literature, the most impactful stories are not mere ink on paper but intricate conduits that bridge the minds and hearts of readers. As a writer, my primary goal is to create captivating narratives that transport readers into a world of imagination, but my main focus lies in forging a profound connection between my reader and the characters I bring to life.
Empathy and Relatability: The Building Blocks of Connection
One of the fundamental aspects of establishing a deep connection with my reader is cultivating empathy and relatability with my characters. When readers can see themselves, their experiences, or their aspirations reflected in the lives of my characters, they form an emotional bond. By crafting characters with a range of human emotions, flaws, and dreams, I give readers the opportunity to identify with them, fostering a sense of shared understanding and empathy.
Invoking Emotional Responses: Evoking the Power of Feelings
Deep emotional writing using deep point of view has the ability to elicit a spectrum of emotions within readers. Whether it’s joy, sorrow, fear, or excitement, invoking emotional responses creates a memorable reading experience. By delving into the depths of characters’ emotions, I invite readers to embark on an emotional journey alongside them. When readers connect emotionally with characters, they become emotionally invested in them and their stories, yearning for resolution, growth, and transformation.
Authenticity and Realism: Breathing Life into Fiction
While fiction may be born in the realm of imagination, it finds its strength in mirroring reality. The authenticity and realism infused into narratives creates a sense of believability, enabling readers to suspend disbelief and fully immerse themselves in a world created by meticulous research. By grounding characters in genuine human experiences, quirks, and dilemmas, I invite readers to connect with them on a profound level.
Shared Experiences: Finding Common Ground
The power of connection lies in finding common ground. By addressing universal themes and experiences, a writer taps into the shared human condition. Whether it’s love, loss, friendship, or personal growth, exploring themes that resonate with readers cultivates a sense of kinship and understanding. By weaving these universal threads into stories, I attempt to create a bond that transcends the boundaries of time, culture, and personal differences.
The connection between a writer and readers is not a one-sided affair; it requires active engagement from both parties. As a writer, I must actively listen to readers’ feedback, take their perspectives into account, and adapt storytelling accordingly while remaining true to historical facts, themes and characters. By engaging in conversations with readers, whether through author events, social media platforms, or book clubs, I hope to create spaces for mutual understanding, trust, and shared appreciation for the stories I create.
Importance of Meaningful Connections
The significance of fostering a strong connection between writers and readers cannot be overstated.
Through empathy, emotional resonance, authenticity, and shared experiences, we can bridge the gap between imaginative worlds and the hearts and minds of readers. As a writer, I hope to shape more authentic lives, broaden horizons, and leave a lasting impact. By cultivating meaningful connections with readers, perhaps I will forge a bond that transcends the pages of my books, creating an impression that resonates long after the final chapter is read.
Who you hope to grow old like?
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I think it’s true how both media and cosmetics have made aging seem like something to try and avoid in every way possible which is crazy considering how perfectly natural it is. There’s nothing wrong with looking a little older, and being a little wiser. I sincerely respect my elders. I hope to age like Judith Heumann – so intelligent, so graceful, so ground-breaking. Even until her last days, she fought to make this world a better place.
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An incredible example. Amen, Simone 🥰
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I really enjoyed reading what Karen has written her! I keep hoping to grow old gracefully without ever having to grow up!😉
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well said – and maybe to just keep evolving in a positive way 🙂
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I am 68 now and can relate to these Ladies, and I applaude what they are doing. Yes, there are small ailments, and yes one is not as strong as with 18, but ageing definitely has its advantages. Retirement for example, I love it! One of the main points for me is that I don’t care so much anymore what people think about me, not nearly as as much as when I was young. I can make my own choices more freely now.
With regard to Karen Lynne Klink, was she not the author you were visiting in one of your posts, the one with the beautiful home?
Her advice is very useful. I also find it helpful to give the actors in the story some character traits and experiences of people I know, even of myself to make the story more real somehow.
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I’m with you, Birgit, when it comes to celebrating. Of course, I can relate to those who dread old age, but I’ve lived life as a worrier for long enough to intellectually know that the things I worry about the most are either least likely to happy, or they happen in a way that’s entirely different from what I expected. Some of the bad things happen gradually enough that good things can sidle up to turn them into assets or at least not as nearly as awful as I’d predicted. Challenge can surprise us about life & ourselves.
Haven’t visited Karen’s home, surely it’s lovely 🙂
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Well, certain childhood situations make one wonder, if one wants to grow up at all, marry, have kids and all that, go to work for that matter. And old age is at a certain point in life a nightmare. I am glad that I got over it. 😉 🙂
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I prefer not to grow up. Growing old…only one way to stop that. And at 70 years old now, I’m not ready for that final curtain.
I enjoyed reading this though. Just proves that in some of our older citizens, there is life, wisdom, and plenty of room for fun!
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Thanks for visiting and commenting. A cancer scare taught me what a blessing it is to be able to grow old
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Yeah. Glad you beat it. I’m going thru it currently but I was lucky. I should be fine.
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thank goodness! I believe taking good care of ourselves helps – but sh#t happens too – the best we can do is enjoy life to the fullest. I have a few blog posts on it. if you’re interested, just type ‘cancer’ into search bar at my site. overall, we all deserve life & happiness, & no one can predict their time…
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I will look them up. Thanks. Stay well!
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I already grew old, so I did not have a chance at a wish list. I guess I would have picked my Mom who made it to 94+ and lost none of her mental faculties and stayed as physically active as possible for her age. But I plan to give up my driver’s license at some point after watching her keep driving until the end!
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My mom is about that same age and still going strong though she recently gave up driving. Fortunately our city has great free transportation services for disabled folks and seniors. In a way I think it’s helping her get out even more now because before she was driving less and less. I don’t consider myself a Pollyanna, just realistic that wonderful things glimmer even amid the most challenging situations
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