Khashayar walking into a super cold Big Sur stream.

Adulting and Videos + Why Darlene Foster Writes For Children

What was the day you became an adult? “Young Adult” (aka YA) is a major category when it comes to selling fiction, especially because people of all ages enjoy reading it. If I could swing it, I’d aim for that, rather than the harder sell of literary fiction, which the genre of the novels I’m working on.

Last week, I had the pleasure of seeing a couple of young people leave home to start college. In one case, friends were driving their son to begin university classes in San Jose, 400 miles north of Los Angeles. My husband and I flew to meet up with the parents and then the four of us enjoyed a leisurely drive back south.

Along the way, we also visited a young cousin from Spain who that very week relocated to attend college in Santa Barbara, a stunning affluent beach town.

These images are from that drive…

Khashayar walking into a super cold Big Sur stream.
Khashayar was steely enough to brave a super cold Big Sur stream.

Piedras Blancas is the beach of choice for many elephant seals. Average males grow to 16 feet and 5,000 pounds, so babies risk getting smothered by them. Learn more about them here.

The entire length of Pacific Coast Highway is phenomenal.

Morro Bay is famed for Morro Rock. The historical site was formed about 23 million years ago from the plugs of long-extinct volcanoes. While we visited, Otters were doing log-rolls and lounging tummy-up in the water, but they were too far off to snap a good photo.

K-D doggie was overjoyed when her people returned home and she loved getting her chest rubbed.
K-D doggie was overjoyed when her people returned home and she was in nirvana when Khashayar gave her an overdue chest rub.

As for young people, author/blogger Darlene Foster has written eight books for them (and everyone else) in ten years! She writes full-time from Spain, and also writes and does some editing for other writers. She says, “I also travel whenever I get the chance and consider it part of my research. It’s a good life.”

When I asked her to let us know how she went about getting published, she emailed back:

“It took me three years to write my first book and five years to find a publisher. I sent out query letters to many publishers around the world, received many polite rejection letters and eventually found a publisher in my own neighbourhood. Go figure! Central Avenue Publishing is an independent traditional publisher and I am very happy with the professionalism and dedication of my publisher. The lesson here is, never give up!”

Learn more about Darlene, her books, where to get them, and all her social media links, at her blog.

Photo of author Darlene Foster.
Photo of author Darlene Foster.

Why I Write For Children by Darlene Foster

One of my favourite memories from my childhood is sitting on a large rock in the middle of a prairie field making up stories in my head. I had a wonderful childhood, although I didn’t always appreciate it at the time. I found it lonely, as I like being around people, and often wished I lived in a big, busy city. But it gave me plenty of time to daydream and create characters and adventures that later fuelled my desire to write. In grade three, I had a wonderful teacher who encouraged me to write down my stories. She also taught us about other countries in such a fun, interesting way that made me want to travel the world and meet interesting people. I owe her a lot and have since found her and thanked her for making a difference in my life. When I was twelve, one of my stories was published in the local newspaper. I decided then that I wanted to be a published writer one day.

Why did I choose to write children’s adventure books? I love writing for children, they are like sponges and eager to learn. They enjoy adventures and characters who can get themselves out of a tight spot. I can better express the excitement of travelling to new places when I write from the point of view of a child. 

Interestingly, many adults read my books and enjoy them as well. Kids’ books aren’t just for kids!

The stories in the Amanda Travels series are inspired by my real-life travel experiences.

When I visit an interesting place, I get a strong desire to share my experience with the rest of the world. The best way for me to do this is to write about it. I am always thinking of how I can work a setting or situation into a story. I take notes and many pictures during my travels and think about what would interest a young person. 

I have travelled to all the places Amanda has been. However, I do not have all the adventures Amanda has. She has more fun, excitement and scary experiences in her travels than I do. For instance, I took a riverboat cruise down the Danube with my best friend and our husbands a few years ago, on a boat called, The Sounds of Music. It was a trip of a lifetime, with stops in Germany, Austria, and Hungary. I knew immediately it would be the perfect setting for an Amanda and Leah adventure. Including music in the story was a no-brainer. This is how Amanda on the Danube: The Sounds of Music was conceived. 

On another occasion, I travelled to Taos, New Mexico with my aunt, who is also one of my best friends. We had such an amazing time. Besides being steeped in history, the place has a very paranormal feel about it. We even visited a haunted hotel in Cimarron. Everywhere we went, I kept saying, “Amanda would love it here.” When I returned home, I immediately started making notes which eventually became, Amanda in New Mexico: Ghosts in the Wind.

I love to read and so does Amanda. Books are important to both of us. When a vintage novel goes missing, Amanda feels compelled to find it. I love visiting the many used bookstores in England so I wanted to include one in the novel. I found a quintessential bookstore on the Isle of Wight which was perfect for the story, including a resident Main Coon cat. Rupert, the cat, plays an important role in Amanda in England: The Missing Novel.

My latest book in the series, Amanda in Malta: The Sleeping Lady was a result of a trip I took with my hubby a couple of years ago. I loved the history and culture of Malta and felt it would be an ideal setting for an Amanda Travels book. I tossed in some endangered birds, a missing artefact and a friend in danger. Amanda would do anything to help her friend. One reviewer said, “I love the author’s ability to bring the settings alive, from the Blue Grotto to a beautiful cathedral in Valletta, all while keeping the suspense high.”

Covers of some of the many books Darlene Foster has published.
Covers of some of the many books Darlene Foster has published.

It took me three years to write the first book, Amanda in Arabia: The Perfume Flask. It was a steep learning curve as I had so much to learn. I am still learning, but I can write a book in a year now. Keeping things fresh in a series is a challenge. I keep up with today´s young people, hang out with them and listen to their conversations. I introduce new characters in every book to keep it interesting. The character of Caleb, a classmate and good friend of Amanda’s was introduced in the New Mexico book. He was so well received he appears again in Amanda in Malta: The Sleeping Lady.

Publishing eight books in ten years is a huge accomplishment for me. I have also won prizes for my short stories and have had stories published in several anthologies. A milestone for me was visiting my former school in rural Alberta and reading from my books to the current students. Seeing my books available online, and on shelves at bookstores and libraries is the most incredible feeling. Having readers tell me they enjoy the stories and hope I write more is like a dream come true. 

If this is a dream, I don’t want to wake up!

Amanda is the twelve-year-old I would have liked to be. It is so much easier for kids to travel these days, but I didn’t travel on an airplane until I was in my mid-twenties. I would have so loved to see the world as a child. I am doing it now through my writing!  

That’s why I love writing for kids. (And grown-up kids)

What was the day you became an adult?


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84 thoughts on “Adulting and Videos + Why Darlene Foster Writes For Children”

  1. As I read your post Da-Al about leaving home it was like I was reading about a character in a novel. Maybe it’s true what Mark Twain said: truth is stranger than fiction. You’ve had an incredible past.
    I loved reading about Darlene and how persistent she was both in writing her novels and finding a publisher. You are both women that I admire. ❤

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  2. This is a great variation on travel writing — using the places you’ve been to as fictional settings!

    I can believe that a lot of adults read YA fiction. Aiming at an audience with less preconceived ideas about what fiction should and should not be, would seem to allow for more creative freedom. And, less of the cynicism and gloom which are so depressingly fashionable these days.

    I didn’t know that about Picasso. It’s too bad that so many creative people seem to be assholes.

    That’s when I realized it was me who was being abandoned

    This is not normal behavior. Things are pretty bad when moving in with an unemployed drunk is actually a step up. I’m glad you seem to be in a much better situation now.

    What was the day you became an adult?

    At almost 61 years, I have been fending off adulthood for quite some time now, and I intend to continue doing so.

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      1. My “fending off” aside was a tongue-in-cheek tip-of-the-hat to Jimmy Stewart. Adulthood is most often defined by responsibility, and I have accepted and carried out those responsibilities which were truly meaningful to me, however difficult, while doing my best to evade those which society sought to impose on me, however insistently. It’s all a question of adulthood in the sense of the maturity and sobriety one needs to navigate one’s own life successfully, vs the sense of civic duty and obligation which are the hallmark of the willing slave. Definitions can be weapons. What matters is which way they are aimed.

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        1. “Definitions can be weapons. What matters is which way they are aimed.” bravo! how definitions shift between people & lifetimes & dictionaries & spoken vs written & etc, ie “adulthood,” underscores how complicated communication can be. trust comes to mind, the idea of whether I assume the best or worst of what someone aims to tell me…

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  3. What an interesting post, da-AL. It was fascinating to learn more about you and how you found independence – not all by your own volition. Our paths to adulthood are often varied, but somehow, for better or worse, we get there. A lovely guest post from Darlene too. Her journey to publishing was an interesting one, and she’s found a lovely niche. Wishing you both much success.

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    1. when it comes to some parents, sometimes it’s a kindness that they let go, if you get my drift… you’re a role model to us with your blog & your books, making us laugh & think ❤

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  4. Thanks for including me in this great post. I became an adult when I had my son at 17. I have never regretted it as he is the kindest, most caring and responsible person I have ever known. I moved to Spain when my children were adults, in their 40s, but I still felt like I was abandoning them. They gave me their blessings and said to enjoy my life. As for growing up, my character Amanda will stay 12 forever! I think it would be mean to make her grow up.

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