Nelson Mandela wearing one of the colorful 'Madiba' shirts he became known for. Photo courtesy of Wiki

Nelson Mandela on Hope + Jacqui Murray on Neanderthal Clothing

After enduring 27 years in South African jail for speaking out against racism, revolutionary-politician-philanthropist Nelson Mandela (South African, July 18, 1918 – Dec. 5, 2013) went on to serve as South Africa’s most internationally acclaimed president. Nowadays, many there refer to him as ‘Father of the Nation.’ (By the way, check out this gorgeous quotation that’s wrongly attributed to him.)

Nelson Mandela wearing one of the colorful 'Madiba' shirts he became known for. Photo courtesy of Wiki
Nelson Mandela wearing one of the colorful ‘Madiba’ shirts he became known for. Photo courtesy of Wiki

Each time I read his famous quotes about having confidence and being brave, I am reminded of the times I’ve shocked myself by seeing how sneaky my fear of success can be. As a kid, I worried that setting myself apart would invite criticism, jealousy, and ostracism.

Those fears persist, but in ways that I have to be extra vigilant to detect. Anyone who is thoughtful and who puts their heart into their work knows that insensitive and sometimes even ill-willed people exist within all realms of one’s life. It’s not always easy to not give a damn, but somehow I must slog through the self-doubts that others trigger in me and that I can supply in generous quantities on my own.

Fortunately, at times I know I’m good, and that there are great people all around me. Good and bad and alternating, Mandela is right to point that that being our best selves benefits everyone.

As an adult, only an hour after I had won an Emmy Award, a stranger asked me how the honor felt. My reply was so awkward that he went so far as to remind me that I had indeed won it. Months afterward, telling people about it continued to be a  confusing affair.

Now when I’m frustrated by not accomplishing my goals as quickly as I’d like, I remind myself of Mandela’s wise encouragement. Sometimes I need to be patient. Other times, I see that I need a major confidence overhaul, which at first glance appears impossible to achieve. That can involve looking for examples of other people doing what I’d like to do. Talking with people who’s judgment I trust also helps. Allowing myself to be uncomfortable with the process is crucial. Patience is always rewarded.

Do you ever get in your own way?

Today’s guest blog post…

…is by blogger/author Jacqui Murray. Visit her site and you’ll be impressed by the range of what she writes about, whether fiction or nonfiction. Today she shares some of her research notes for  her prehistoric fiction saga, Man vs. Nature which explores seminal events in man’s evolution one trilogy at a time…

Black and white headsot of author/blogger Jacqui Murray and the covers of 2 of her latest books.
Author/blogger Jacqui Murray and her latest books.

What Was Neanderthal Clothing Like by Jacqui Murray

Neanderthal wore hides. These were much more advanced than a Mammoth skin with a hole cut in it for the head that hung over the body, but not as sophisticated as the snugly stitched clothes made by Homo sapiens (modern man) who came out of Africa and settled in the cold Eurasian climates. Each Neanderthal required five large hides every few years for their wraps, capes, and foot coverings. That would take 20-80 solid hours of processing.

Here are some notes:

Clothing

  • Cold weather, the typical Neanderthal climate, required fitted clothing and foot coverings to keep from freezing in frigid temperatures with often deep snow.
  • Neanderthals were skilled enough with scrapers to clean bits of flesh from buffalo, deer, mammoth, elephant and other hides. They did this by holding the skin in their mouth like a third hand, as some current populations do, freeing both hands for cleaning, scraping, and cutting. Once cleaned, they were soaked maybe with added wood ash, maybe in rivers or lakes or pits.
  • A bone awl was used to poke holes in the hide where the needle could slip cordage through and lace together pieces into a loose-fitting garment. “Loose” is our term, but to them, a much snugger fit than without the stitching.
  • Preparing one deer skin takes about a day. They could preserve them with salt or smoke, and by tanning.
  • The thread for lacing was made from bark or root. Neanderthals would use the fibrous layer of tissue just beneath the bark, soak the fibers to separate, soften, and then twist them into cordage.

Carry bag

  • These were made from the cleaned organs of large animals or hide scraps. It is likely they wore carry bags over their shoulders–large to carry what they foraged, eggs, plant food, spare hides, and other items.

Jewelry

Neanderthals did wear what we consider necklaces or bracelets made of feathers, shells, pebbles, and eagle talons strung on a cord. Why they wore jewelry, we don’t know, maybe for body adornment, but possibly to identify a tribe or for symbolic purposes. No species prior to Neanderthals had practiced this.

  • It is unclear how they drilled the holes in the articles, maybe with the same awl they used to create lacing holes in clothing.
  • Researchers from the Max Planck Institute found that Neanderthals manufactured nearly identical doughnut-shaped, ostrich-shell beads, often with the same thickness and diameter. These may have been worn to communicate symbolic messages, the way we might wear a wedding ring, to indicate something about social status, wealth, or position in society. What stood out to researchers was how similar they were across different areas. It suggests a coherent social network spanning a large distance, tying the south of the continent to the east. This could be related to the geometric symbols found in caves that also were similar across a large geographic area though there is no proof of that.

Body painting

Body painting may have been the earliest form of art, before handprints on cave walls or painted stones. Neanderthals had paint kits for coloring rocks, hides, or their bodies. It consisted of items like ground red ochre, manganese, special rocks, crushed bones that had been heated to extract the marrow oils, ground charcoal, and a fluid such as water or urine. They used a slim bone to apply the resulting mixture to whatever object or person was the end product. The preparation of the paint mixture required at least a basic understanding of chemistry since the materials often had to be heated in very specific ways to get the desired results.

Assembling all of this would have required quite a bit of planning as these materials were not available in the immediate vicinity.


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54 thoughts on “Nelson Mandela on Hope + Jacqui Murray on Neanderthal Clothing”

  1. Thanks for this moving reminder that we’re daughters and sons of light da-AL. There’s always the tendency of not maxing our potentials because of other people’s insecurities but this only slows us down on our journey of becoming who we were born to be. “The place of the lamp is not underneath the bed.”

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  2. In wanting to write about insecurity I found myself trying to tackle such a lofty topic with no clear angle or answer to my own struggles with insecurity. The words, “It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us” insist that we change our view of who we are. Thank you for the reminder “that being our best selves benefits everyone.” Here’s to the journey of seeing the light within ourselves and sharing its radiant beauty with everyone.

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    1. I believe Mandela is addressing exactly that – he’s saying that our worrying about overshadowing others is something we should not consider – because our being our best sets an example for others, in addition to it helping others.

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        1. I believe this is the point of it all. Keeping with the metaphor, light cannot per sé overshadow anyone.. because it’s light! What one can do is to create a shadow by putting one’s ego in between, and with that cast a shadow on someone. But I thing there’s a whole piece of the picture missing here. I think what Omoackin is referring to is the situation in which someone’s brightness might engulf other people’s shine and make it appear diminished in the eye of a third person (such as in the case of a teacher and a classroom with an outstanding person in it). Things get a bit messy in that case, and not straightforward. But then it’s up to the really brilliant person how she uses her light: pointing it in the eye of the beholder, or enhancing the light of others and guiding them along the way. Lighting up others does not diminish one’s own, unless egoism gets in the way.

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          1. This is an important conversation, omoackin & Andy — I agree, omoackin, that it’s a difficult thing to do — & with Andy’s explanation

            for me, a simpler personal analogy might be to do with health. I was a fat kid. as a teen, I began to lose weight. I encountered jealousy and people wanting me to stay familiar. it would have been so very easy to give in & just stay fat — but in the greater scheme of things, who would that have benefited? as individuals, we need examples of things to strive for, rather than examples that help us not feel bad about not doing our best. as citizens of the world an unhealthy life is a drain on resources

            we must all encourage each other to be our best. Mandela must have known well of this & how hard it can be at times – otherwise why did he make a point of telling us?

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