
Ever been told that the ultimate tragedy (and crime) for a girl and a woman is not to be regarded as physically attractive?
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It’s a no from me. I can see it being insulting because to say ‘not attractive’ could imply ‘ugly’ but I wouldn’t really say so. I think attractiveness is so subjective, it will vary between each person as to what he or she considers attractive. And to not be considered attractive doesn’t mean all that much when you consider that person could have incredible other attributes; talent, model-appeal despite defying social norms of attractiveness, intelligence, etc. An interesting one! x
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All women are beautiful. It’s the photographer’s job to not mess up the shot. 😉 A man has to walk a fine line between sincere compliment and sticking his foot in his mouth.
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but why is it ok for a man to be ugly aka ‘rugged’ or ‘interesting’…
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I don’t know, you’ll have to ask a woman Why they put up with us?
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LOL my husband asks me that 🙂
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That ostrich speaks the truth. You go girl!
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The ultimate tragedy would be for a girl, or anyone, to meet an individual that would make such a statement… obviously, anyone who tells someone they are not sexually attractive is a under educated Neanderthal with a inflated ego and under most, if not all, circumstances should ignored… 🙂
“Sometimes it is best to keep ones mouth shut and appear stupid, rather than open it and remove all doubt”.. Mark Twain
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it’s amazing how much we can infer without words…
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Some women embrace their physical appearances with dignity and finesse, but it does seem that men rely on character and skills before fussing over the way they look. Take a peek at the back covers of books – every woman author looks like she could be a model, and yet we read their words and their wisdom – are only gorgeous women talented writers? Our culture is shallow and it make people doubt their talents. So very sad, such waste.
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exactly, Sharon — it’s like a woman isn’t attractive, then her message isn’t worth hearing… ❤
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