It’s OK 2 Say Nope 2 Holidays + Podcast: Dog Days + L. Brummet’s Leeks

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Wish the holidays would just go away? It’s okay to tell them to go away.

Holidays can be nice — and terrible! Family can bring us to our knees — both to swoon and to cringe. Romance can make our hearts flutter or seize.

From Halloween to New Year’s, at least here in the United States, we’re inundated 24/7 with messages of how this is the time for families and lovers. We’re instructed to either kiss, or to kiss and make up.

fullsizerender-5Sometimes none of that is possible or isn’t in our best interest.

Traditional or sacred, I invite you to join me in acknowledging that ignoring any special day is perfectly acceptable. Never, sometimes, always; we can give any number of them a rest, whenever we please.

What matters is that we do everything to get through them as best we can — whatever it takes to mark time, to survive, to thrive through and into gentle holiday-free January.

Do you ever prefer to ignore holidays?

Published by da-AL

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74 thoughts on “It’s OK 2 Say Nope 2 Holidays + Podcast: Dog Days + L. Brummet’s Leeks”

  3. As much as I don’t like the January weather (in New England – brrrr), I’m always grateful when it comes. You’re right, Halloween to Christmas is too much craziness. Lots of it is fun and family oriented and lovely. But… Phew. I can sit by the fire and read now. 🙂

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  4. Indeed a thought provoking post…it’s true the new year is over commercialized and just sometimes sitting at home watching tv feels like you’re not doing enough to celebrate..but who’s judging ?? Happy New year nonetheless 😊😊

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