I was in the middle of working out some particularly knotty bits of writing my novels when sweet K-D doggie dropped a ball at my feet. Her message was loud and clear: it was time for a walk. A couple of blocks into our stroll, we encountered this hand-drawn sign stapled to a phone pole. Note the adorable drawings of “doggos” and “cats,” the encouragement to educate oneself under the attention-grabbing “Coyotes are Dangerous!” headline.
This is the adorable of neighborhood poster I encountered while walking my doggie, hand made by neighborly Girl Scouts.
The coyotes and humans of Los Angeles County make for troubled neighbors. On the one hand, coyotes were here first. The burgeoning number of humans has put a strain on the families of our four-legged population. On the other hand, the more desperate coyotes get for food and shelter, the bolder they become about snacking on small family pets. To their credit, they also munch on vermin such as rats and mice that spread nasty germs and dine on backyard gardens.
Intrigued, I tore a paper tag from the sign, which noted the sign makers’ website. As soon as I got back to my desktop computer, I looked up the “Coyote Crew.” According to their site, they’re on “a mission to safely and peacefully get coyotes out of your neighborhood.”
As it turns out, they’re Girl Scouts! First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt thought Girl Scouts were great. A video on Youtube from around 1937 shows her with an encampment of girls from all over the world. In her speech, she relays a greeting from her husband and urges them to “grasp every good time you can.”
Of course, I had to invite the Coyote Crew to introduce themselves here at Happiness Between Tails. That led me to research the Girl Scouts, given that I knew practically nothing about the organization.
When I was a kid, other than a bit of high school team swimming and water polo, I didn’t join groups because my family didn’t have much money. Also, contrary to a relative who’s forever tried to gaslight me, we moved around a lot. By the time I left home at eighteen, I’d lived in fifteen apartments and attended ten schools.
What I learned about the Girl Scouts is impressive! They’ve been around since 1912 and have been lauded by everyone, including President Barack Obama.
Moreover, they’ve repeatedly fended off groups that don’t want transgender girls to join. In one case, when a Bigoted Deep Pockets mailed them a check for $100,000 with the stipulation that they not help anyone who is transgender, the Girl Scouts mailed it back to them! Better yet, they collected $250,000 from people who were overjoyed by their intregrity!
The organization is big into teaching self-reliance and smarts, including when it comes to money. Their cookie selling is epic. Their aptly titled “The Cookies Are Here” commercial from 1976 is smart and funny. The way all kinds of people stash them in all sorts of unexpected places makes me want to run out and buy some…
Now, here are Ava and Jamie, the two Girl Scouts behind the sign my dog and I saw on that telephone pole, to tell us about their coyote awareness project project. They’ve put together a great website where they can emailed from…
Here’s a picture of a page on The Coyote Crew’s website.
“A Silver Award Project (But Socially Distanced)” By Jamie & Ava, members of The Girl Scouts and of The Coyote Crew
Hi, we’re The Coyote Crew, Bronze award and 500/1200 club Girl Scouts who have always fought for animal rights and against animal cruelty. Our journey with animal rights started when people close to us had their cats killed by a coyote, and we have been searching for ways to protect our neighborhood pets from coyotes ever since. About a year ago, we were faced with the challenge of coming up with a project to do for our Girl Scout Silver Award, and so the Coyote Crew was created! Our mission is to help inform people about the dangers of coyotes, and the fact that the coyotes need to be protected as well as our pets. It is our job as humans to keep our animals safe and keep ourselves safe from wildlife, while respecting the boundaries of wild animals, especially those who live around neighborhoods. This project will tell you a little bit about coyotes, how to keep your pets safe from them, why harming coyotes is a bad idea, and expose you to the personal lives of people living with coyotes practically next door to them through interviews.
Meet the Crew
Hi I’m Jamie. I have always loved animals, and after doing a research project on animal testing in fifth grade, I became passionate about animal rights. I joined PETA, and several other animal rights foundations and organizations and began buying cruelty free products. My extensive research on animal rights never touched the topic of coyotes, and although coyotes continued to be a negative thing in my life, I always thought that they deserved more than what humans give to them. Depleting their food source and taking over their land, making them skinny and hungry and unable to live without eating our pets. So I helped start The Coyote Crew. Of course, I have never particularly liked coyotes- my next door neighbor had his cat, Jazz, killed by one, and my dad had to clean up the cat’s dead body in their front lawn. Nobody liked that experience in the slightest, obviously. Jazz was an awesome cat, and we all miss him, but he is only gone because the coytes didn’t have any other options or land to hunt on. And what I hope to do is to make sure that coyotes don’t have a chance to eat the pets, and that humans don’t have intentions to hurt coyotes.
Hi I’m Ava. I have always been scared of coyotes coming into my neighborhood. Some of my firsthand experience includes having coyotes visit my neighborhood, and even being only feet away from one as a small child. Ever since I was a little kid I cared for animals and their rights. One of the main topics I wanted Coyote Crew to cover was that while we should take action to get coyotes out of our neighborhoods, we should not harm the coyotes in the process. Another point is that not only should we strive for our neighborhoods to be free of coyotes but to learn and educate others on why coyotes come to neighborhoods in the first place. Most times when there is a conflict between the two, it is misunderstood on what is really happening on either side. Hopefully in my future I will continue on this journey of learning and educating about animals as it is a topic that cannot be explained in simple words.
The Coyote Crew as a whole has always been about peace between animals and humans. Our goal is to keep coyotes peacefully and safely out of your neighborhood. That however, is only one of our motives for doing this project. Our second one is that we are Girl Scouts with the determination to achieve our Silver Award. If you are unaware of what that is, it is a project most Girl Scouts go through; the qualifications for it require 50 hours of work towards the project, it has to contribute to the community, and you have to work with the community itself. So far we have completed 50+ hours of work and presented to five classes about our project. We have also hung up posters and even started a website.
Now doing this during a literal Pandemic has been no easy feat. Whether it was the fear of contracting the virus itself or the struggle of actually getting the project planned and finished, there were complications. We would say that about 95% of the project was online or digital. We haven’t met up for any of this project.
It sounds crazy to say, but all of our meetings were either on Zoom or facetime. The Pandemic added extra stress about our working with the community, because we haven’t been able to really work with the community as of late. Luckily, we had an opportunity to present to a few classes and interview community members with experience over Zoom. And to make our project sustainable, we thought the internet is one of the few things that will stay for…well a long time to say the least. What better way to do so than to make a website?
Check out our website and email us from there if you are interested in protecting yourself and your pets, and email us with any coyote related questions! Our website explains simply how to keep your boundaries with coyotes and how to keep yourself and your pets safe. There is also a link to a podcast we spoke in (coming soon), an interview with a cat fosterer who has a lot of experience on coyotes, and pages where you can email us and have your own experience with coyotes put up, including an encounters page, a Q&A, and “a design your own flier” (to put up in your neighborhood warning about coyotes.) We hope you use the information in the website and put it to good use, as well as interacting with it. We don’t have many supporters now, but we do hope to in the future!
Thank you so much for reading our article, it means the world to us! We are so grateful to have been invited to post on this site. We never thought we would get as far as to be sought out to speak about something we care about so much, and we appreciate every ounce of support!
–The Coyote Crew
Growing up, were you a member of any youth groups? How many homes did you live in and how many schools did you attend? And remember, the best way to combat gaslighting is to speak your truth…
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55 thoughts on “Transgender Rights, Coyotes, Girl Scouts, and Gaslighting: with Videos”
I was not aware of Girl Scouts supporting trans rights. Thanks for enlightening me!
Hi dear friend! It’s been a while again, since I last did visit your virtual home. Happy to read you’re working on your novel and your sweet furry friend is reminding you of the important things in life: having fun while walking and playing. Sending a big hug across the big pond and if you have time, come and dance with me at my virtual home 🙂 XxX
I actually was in The Girl Scouts and even got my Curved Bar (not even sure what that represented, but it was a big deal:) We never had projects as cool as relocating coyotes..but Times have changed. I really enjoyed your post❤️
I’ve never seen coyotes where I live in Ontario, it’s suburbs. California is very different, I’ve been there once, some 14 years ago. All colors are so bright, and the ocean!
We don’t have here such problems in Ontario, but obviously others.
Well, I grew up and lived until 44 years in soviet Latvia which was within the USSR. Latvia only became independent again in 2001. So, I didn’t have anything like you describe, but had lots of other things.
I loved teaching from early age, drew ABC for my sister and taught her reading. It was so that nobody ever really cared about my drawing or essays, but I was writing and drawing every day until I went to the University. In USSR, you had to work. Every summer when school was out, every day practically. One could only do homework, etc. after all chores were done, thus, we learned very early things like gardening, cooking, I was sewing for me from age 12. It’s not that parents made you work so much, they worked 6 days a week for about 12 hours a day and then at home. We had to help.
During school we moved only 3 times, but I on my own have moved about 35 times, the biggest move was across the ocean with one suitcase to start new life close to 50.
Sorry, if my comment is long and not really about groups which I joined since there was only one group communist youth and I didn’t join that. My dad was in Siberia, grandfather was in Siberia deported to labor camps by communists. 1 Latvian of every 1,000 returned, so it’s clear what our attitude was.
See, you provoked me to write this long comment with your interesting blog post! It’s been a while, I though to leave a few lines
Happy 4th of July!
Thank you for sharing!!… the coyotes here on the prairie rarely connect with us humans, though one can hear them, especially in the morning… the problem we have is people “dump” their pet dogs because they don’t want them anymore and the abandoned domesticated dog sometimes breed with the coyote and the offspring are call Coy-dogs and are basically a wild animal that is not afraid of humans.. 🙂
i grew up on the farm in the 1940’s, ’50’s and early ’60’s so did not participate in any youth groups, did join the Marines in 1963… 🙂
Have a happy, and safe, holiday and until we meet again..
May the love that you give
Always return to you,
That family and friends are many
And always remain true,
May your mind only know peace
No suffering or strife,
May your spirit only know love and happiness
On your journey through life.
(Larry “Dutch” Woller)
I was not aware of Girl Scouts supporting trans rights. Thanks for enlightening me!
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nor was I until I did the research — good new to discover ❤
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Thank you so much for having us! This is so fun and exciting!
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the pleasure is all mine, Ava & Jamie!
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Hi dear friend! It’s been a while again, since I last did visit your virtual home. Happy to read you’re working on your novel and your sweet furry friend is reminding you of the important things in life: having fun while walking and playing. Sending a big hug across the big pond and if you have time, come and dance with me at my virtual home 🙂 XxX
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so lovely of you to visit, Patty – will be by soon ❤
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This is fascinating. Do you mind if I go a little bit on a tangent regarding the transgender girl scouts?
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it is a wonderful thing indeed – so glad you enjoyed it 🙂
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Hahaha, cool. So let’s start with the question of why the girl scouts don’t accept boys.
(I’m not building up to a political thing, btw, just an interesting observation.)
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They are doing a great work. Thank you for the information, da-AL! I hope you are all well, and have a nice week! Best wishes, Michael xx
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same to you, Michael 🙂
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Thank you! 🙂
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I actually was in The Girl Scouts and even got my Curved Bar (not even sure what that represented, but it was a big deal:) We never had projects as cool as relocating coyotes..but Times have changed. I really enjoyed your post❤️
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congrats on your Curved Bar, Karima! glad you enjoyed reading 🙂
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I’ve never seen coyotes where I live in Ontario, it’s suburbs. California is very different, I’ve been there once, some 14 years ago. All colors are so bright, and the ocean!
We don’t have here such problems in Ontario, but obviously others.
Well, I grew up and lived until 44 years in soviet Latvia which was within the USSR. Latvia only became independent again in 2001. So, I didn’t have anything like you describe, but had lots of other things.
I loved teaching from early age, drew ABC for my sister and taught her reading. It was so that nobody ever really cared about my drawing or essays, but I was writing and drawing every day until I went to the University. In USSR, you had to work. Every summer when school was out, every day practically. One could only do homework, etc. after all chores were done, thus, we learned very early things like gardening, cooking, I was sewing for me from age 12. It’s not that parents made you work so much, they worked 6 days a week for about 12 hours a day and then at home. We had to help.
During school we moved only 3 times, but I on my own have moved about 35 times, the biggest move was across the ocean with one suitcase to start new life close to 50.
Sorry, if my comment is long and not really about groups which I joined since there was only one group communist youth and I didn’t join that. My dad was in Siberia, grandfather was in Siberia deported to labor camps by communists. 1 Latvian of every 1,000 returned, so it’s clear what our attitude was.
See, you provoked me to write this long comment with your interesting blog post! It’s been a while, I though to leave a few lines
Happy 4th of July!
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you’ve had quite a life & have much to go 🙂 many tx for sharing a bit of it with us ❤
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Thank you for sharing!!… the coyotes here on the prairie rarely connect with us humans, though one can hear them, especially in the morning… the problem we have is people “dump” their pet dogs because they don’t want them anymore and the abandoned domesticated dog sometimes breed with the coyote and the offspring are call Coy-dogs and are basically a wild animal that is not afraid of humans.. 🙂
i grew up on the farm in the 1940’s, ’50’s and early ’60’s so did not participate in any youth groups, did join the Marines in 1963… 🙂
Have a happy, and safe, holiday and until we meet again..
May the love that you give
Always return to you,
That family and friends are many
And always remain true,
May your mind only know peace
No suffering or strife,
May your spirit only know love and happiness
On your journey through life.
(Larry “Dutch” Woller)
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how sad about the coy-dogs, Larry. as I get older, am thinking Marines is a type of youth group — the enlistees are so young…
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Loved your stories!! Awesome ❤
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so glad – many tx for stopping by 🙂
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You are most welcome😊😊
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Love the walk down memory lane and seeing that good work is being done by the Girls.
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lovey to stroll together, Sarah 🙂
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